hie evryone,
yup, this message is directed to all parents and future parents.i think i am starting to grow really close bonds with my parents. however, is rather ironic as i found out that sumtimes, when they care but dont show it too much, their children wud appreciate them more and start to get closer to them..my dad used to be rather strict about me using the computer although he knew that i was doing work. i noe that he does that out if concern. but sumtimes its very hurting to feel that your parents are in a way reprimanding you for being good. thats not what they are trying to do! they are concerned about your health more than having a top-notch ace in studies. trust me.
these days, my dad is starting to understand my needs and is starting to become more relaxed. i feel that now i am
closer to him and i feel more comfortable with him.
remember parents and future parents! teenagers are just like train tracks and you are the builders. if you do not leave gaps for them to expand, they wud break and that wud affect other pple when the train goes off course. if you allow them to expand, they wud not break and the train would continue trips smoothly and safely.
it works on this simple concept.
~matt